Former Super Eagles captain, Mikel John Obi
Former Super Eagles midfielder, Mikel John Obi, has observed that entitled families are more prevalent in Africa.
He pointed out that If one family member achieves financial stability, there is often a tendency for others in the family to relent in their daily efforts, placing the responsibility of financial provisions on the successful family member.
During an interview with fellow footballer, Rio Ferdinand, the former Super Eagles captain lamented how families are often entitled to a persons money in Africa.
According to Obi, when an African person acquires money, many relatives and cousins begin to make demands, and sisters even married men believe they are destined to be a part of the family.
The football player mentioned that these people have so many children and expect him to care for them and that he sometimes has to be strong and put his own needs aside.
Mikel Obi stated that the extended family members believe he owes them money and threaten to go to the press if he refuses.
This, according to the footballer, is prevalent in Africa.
He said: When you come from Africa when you make money, its not your money. You have all these relatives, cousins, and your sisters go off and get married to some guy who just wants to get married into Mikel John Obis family because his life is sorted, and then you start looking after this guy, and before you know it, they keep having so many kids and you look at it like,
Okay, youre having this many kids, who are going to look after them? Its you! Its the culture because, for them, you owe them that, so sometimes you have to be strong and say, ˜You know what, guys, enough is enough; I dont care. They give you this thing whereby ˜if you dont do it, were going to go to the press. After all, what have I done for you guys? But this happens a lot in Africa. Not everybody comes out and speaks about it. (The Nation)
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